Changing The Face of Dying
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PEACE OF MIND
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ASSESSMENT AND MONITORING
PEACE OF MIND
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Your concerns will be heard and addressed.
IS A TERMINAL DIAGNOSIS DESTROYING YOUR FAMILY?
- You are having a hard time accepting a terminal diagnosis.
- You are fearful of living life without a loved one.
- You are afraid of death and have no idea how to prepare yourself or your loved ones for it.
LIFE WITHOUT REGRETS
- What would it be like to feel comfortable around death; knowing exactly what to say, do and expect?
- Can you imagine honoring your loved ones wishes and being comfortable advocating for them?
- Can you imagine having the tools to better cope with a terminal diagnosis and support and comfort your loved ones?
- Can you imagine accepting death and experiencing it as a human experience and not a medical one?
CUSTOMIZED END OF LIFE SUPPORT TO LESSEN THE BURDEN OF A TERMINAL DIAGNOSIS SO THAT FAMILIES ARE LESS FEARFUL AND STRESSED
- Resources and support during a terminal illness, so you can give your loved one the proper goodbye
- Peace of mind, knowing that your loved one is comfortable.
- Resolution, giving everyone the chance to say everything that needs to be said and doing everything that needs to be done.
Adrian Allotey
Solutions to Caregiving, Loneliness, Role Reversal, Loss of Indepence and Grief
- Acknowledgement, being seen as the individual you are and not the disease
- Rest, a centered, grounded person will hold your hand through it all
- Prepared, guidance through all of your decisions
- Documentation, written and shared plan of your end of life wishes, including who will advocate for them if they aren’t able to do so.
- Companionship, social and engaging interaction.
- Improved family relationships, less worry and nagging for all family members
You do not have to care for your aging parents alone. There is support available.
- Living Well Plan: document emotional, mental, and spiritual wishes for the last hours, days and weeks of your life
- Vigil Sitting: sitting bedside during the active dying phase to ensure a peaceful transition Respite Care: allowance of much needed rest for loved ones
- Life Review: validate life’s purpose through examination and documentation of life decisions, roles, contributions and impacts on the family, community, and world
- Remembrances: creation of artifacts that documents time on this earth to gift to loved ones and offspring for generations to come
- Memorial Service Planning: educate on funeral and life celebrant service options and assist in the planning and resources as culturally appropriate
Your concerns will be heard and addressed.
Testimoials
What My Clients Say
Adrian Allotey is a valued contributor at Caregiving.com. She brings important insight on the end-of-life experience to our caregiver community. I am thankful for her ongoing commitment to making sure that information about caring for someone through death and end-of-life
Christina B
Adrian Allotey Founder of You are Not Alone Elder Care is one of the most compassionate and gifted practitioners I have ever met. Her combined expert knowledge mixed with her way of making you feel comfortable, cared for and secure-
Suzanne B
Your concerns will be heard and addressed.